Husband and wife is 5 human relations one of, also be the beginning of all human relations in society, in the society of our nowadays, the husband and wife that how builds perfect harmony lives, make domestic home is bodhi spouses, is enemy Philistine? How to make our society has contact of perfect male and female, put an end to the problem that blames female Kuang Nan?
I put forward a few to be opposite from the viewpoint of power of Buddha treated prescription.
Above all, become marital men, how can you just earn the favor of the wife and credit?
I have 4 words to give everybody reference:
1. has a meal should come home
A word says social popularity recently: Father comes home have dinner. The man is outer rushed about one day, not only dinner should come home in eat, also should come home as far as possible usually have a meal, create the opportunity that reunites with family, promotional the atmosphere with happy happy and harmonious. Come home and wife have a meal, won’t sortie joy place, indulge in dissipation, domestic nature won’t make disturbance.
Beside 2. take money less
Money can make important matter trade, money also can destroy good prospect, a lot of money are not put beside the gentleman, cannot card games gambling in group, Jin Wu hides charming, all evildoing nature that steal chicken to feel a dog happen impossibly.
3. goes out say place to go
Some madams complain the gentleman goes out, like seeming to be lost at the sea, do not know whereaboutldirection track, the friend hits one electrify word to search: Is your gentleman in? He one big early went out, I also do not know he went there!
If husband and wife went to this kind to come,each other does not hear the extent that asks consideration, the family life that shows each other is already bright had red light.
4. dinner party is geminate right
A lot of gentlemen need intercourse, dinner party to be excuse with the career, hiding the truth from a wife outside act wildly against law and public opinion, last family revolution, feeling is cracked absolutely. If need a dinner party really, should take a wife to go out double into attend to going, can foster husband and wife already the consensus to the family, let a wife also participate in your career, do virtuous wife, and can avoid needless domestic issue.
Speak of here, ladies perhaps can feel affording general satisfaction, found the way to treating a gentleman.
How to do the family’s wife, I also offer served as to everybody at 4 o’clock borrow lens:
1. tenderness comforts pains
Gentleman work laboriously busied one day outside, tasted joys and sorrows of life, saw through the ways of the world hot and cold, suffer enough grievance is elbowed out, return the home to come, of humanness wife should give tenderness to express sympathy and solicitude for, help he goes from inside predicament, assist him to stand up from inside dismay, is not to take the door with respect to rebuke him: Did you go there? So late ability remembers coming back. You look! Adjoining other people Mr Chen bought rare hand to act the role of for his madam, dress material, marry you with respect to me this poor ghost, a month cannot earn a few money, really hapless! Let the husband carry forever do not come at first.
Occasionally the woman blames the husband outer have many affairs, other form new sweetheart, what reason be basically? Because he arrived over there another woman, those who see is to be filled with be filled with laugh at eye, those who hear is light tone flexible language, get a variety of tenderness is considerate; And return the home in, it is the facial aperture with a piece of cold ice, thick evil fling abuses, be like Tartarean ice house, he comes home naturally involuntarily, of one mind is yearning the Eden outside. The woman cannot be used only fine-looking will win the love that takes a man, only with melting love language, considerate consideration, ability wins the man’s permanent affection.
2. food has clever taste
Someone says, want to control a man, want to control his intestines and stomach first. The man is good come home not easily have a meal, the meal that does often all of one suit, cannot the appetite accord with him, he has excuse of course outer do not answer.
If food has clever taste, beautiful of all of meat meat lubricious sweet smell, he outside food is unaccustomed, nature can know to return on time, what is more,the rather that good food is to safeguard the husband to want healthily square.